For the last two days I have been seeing @courosa tweet about Flickr perversion. I’ve looked over his Flickr photos a few times and they convey to me that he’s a family guy with a cute little boy and girl. I wasn’t entirely sure what he was talking about, and just thought it was about inappropriate groups making the site a bit sleazy or child unfriendly. But then I read his post about Flickr perversion and was moved to feelig physically off. People on flickr had been favouriting images of his very young daughter, and not in a nice way. These people had no photos available for anyone else to view, just a collection of favourite pictures, all of young girls. If you are thinking what I am, one word springs to mind: Paedophilia.
In his post, Alec invites some responses to his questions. I was moved by his post in an unfortunate way and have responded below:
1) What must parents know about the realities of the Internet in regards to how we deal with the photos (and identities) of our children?
This experience shows us that we need to protect our children online, as we do in the physical world. I guess it’s a call for digital literacy, by which I mean understanding the medium we are using. You were lucky that you were literate enough in the medium to go look at this other person’s favourites – what about the parents of those other girls that weren’t so savvy? How do we reach them and help them recognise these potention dangers.
I’d hate to think it means we should shut our children out of this world all together, as the case of Al Upton and the Minilegends, as the online world is where this generation will live a significant portion of their lives.
2) What are the benefits of an open vs. a closed reality? Are the benefits of openness (e.g., in regards to our families) worth the risks? And, what are the credible risks?
Despite the horrible experience you’ve had, I too like to believe in the positivity of humanity. I think that the benefits of humanity ARE worth the risks. What is living if we are always wrapped in cotton wool? But that being said, you’re talking about something very real and awful here and I in no way want to diminish that, just to suggest that there are so many of us in online communities out there that have positive intentions.
I guess some parallels can be drawn between the online and physical worlds here. Parents need to assess the environment and decide how best to keep their children safe. The old addages of “stranger danger” can be applied here.
It’s still just awful though, and highlights that maybe things need to not be so totally “wide open” when it comes to our families and loved ones.
3) What precautions should we take, or perhaps, what precautions do you take in the presentation/development of your family’s digital identity?
I personally don’t normally put photos of my family and friends on Flickr, I’ve never articulated why, even to myself, just that I don’t feel comfortable being the gatekeeper of their digital identities. I would never have contemplated that some pervert out there would use the photos the way they did with your daughter though.
I have quite a few self portraits on Flickr, and being aware of the risks opted to put them online anyway, but family and friends are a differernt matter and those photos generally go on facebook where it’s much more likely only my network will view them.
If I do choose to use images of other people on Flickr in the future, I will do my best to make it clear where the photos will be, and how they may be used. In light of your experience, I will be more cautious in explaining the medium, rather than a basic “you know everyone will be able to see them” kind of statement.
As for still using Flickr for photos of family? If the images aren’t for open use, putting a restriction around only family and friends viewing them may be an answer, but again that is still reliant on defining your family and friends, and then having them create a flickr identity.
4) What rights and responsibilities do we have as parents to protect the digital identities of our children?
In terms of responsibility, I can answer this more confidently than protection. I would hope that in taking responsibility there is less need for protection.
I think we have a responsibility to teach our children how to use the internet safely, which means teaching them about not using full names or disclosing too many details, and giving them an idea of who will see what they are putting online. I think education and experience in this area are a better strategy than closing the online world off to them.
Given your experience with your daughter, I think it is important to be careful how we represent our children and be aware that their risks may be a little different to our own. They need more protection and guidance. By monitoring their online activity and doing things like checking where their images are being used, as you did, is a way of protecting them.
In terms of protection, I wish there were a way we could prosecute people like those who favourited your daughter’s image. In that respect, the online world is not as safe as physical world, which is a sad thing.
5) How do we proceed from here? How do we help other parents to understand these important issues (from a rational perspective)?
I think getting the word out there in a non-alarmist way is important. Your post is a good start. People’s responses to your post are also another key to the puzzle. Perhaps getting the word out in the Flickr community via the message board could help. Messaging those users whose children’s photos are in these groups could help them protect their children and start spreading the word too.
I think it comes full circle to my first response, which is that we need to develop digital literacy to help parents understand the benefits and risks in the medium, and how to negotiate them.
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